The sin and forgiveness framing is really good! Doing things for other people with stakes, where it’s important enough that they might have to forgive you if you let up.
I’ve been able to skate by without actually having to rely on friendships for a long time now, but I want this to change, especially as I create a home for my new family.
I think this was a huge shift for me when I created a family too! It suddenly became very clear what friendships were load-bearing and how I wanted to move towards those relationships where there were real stakes for supporting each other as I worked on building our household.
The sin and forgiveness framing is really good! Doing things for other people with stakes, where it’s important enough that they might have to forgive you if you let up.
I’ve been able to skate by without actually having to rely on friendships for a long time now, but I want this to change, especially as I create a home for my new family.
I think this was a huge shift for me when I created a family too! It suddenly became very clear what friendships were load-bearing and how I wanted to move towards those relationships where there were real stakes for supporting each other as I worked on building our household.
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